Goodnight My Sweet

RaenaBelle, it’s your turn fur some lap luvvin’ time with mommy.

 

 Raena lays in mommy's lap for some lap loving time

 

          It’s ‘bout time. But why is she so sad sissy? I’s know the weather has made her pains more and her teeths are hurtin’, but those things don’t usually make her be so sad?.

 

Dezi lays on the arm of the chair

Oh Raena, you know mommy luvs you very much, right? 

 

 Raena lays in mommy's lap for pets and loving

 

          Of course, sissy. And I’s luvs mommy verrrrrrrrrrrry much too. I’s so happy that she’s mine’s mommy. I’s try to show her how much I’s luvs her every day.

 

 Dezi lays on the Liberty cat tree

 

She knows Raena. She’s sad right now, cuz befur you, me had a big sisfur who mommy luvved very much. They had been together a really long time. And then one day, God called Lexi to heaven. That broke mommy’s heart. Tomorrow will mark 1 year since sis Lexi left us. And tho’ you nor me will ever be Lexi, it’s our job to help ease mommy’s pain from losin’ her.

 

          Should we be doin’ somethin’ special, sissy?

 

Nope Raena, that’s the beauty of luv. All you have to do is be yourself. As much as we luv mommy, she luvs us. And all we need to do is just show mommy we luv her. Maybe some extra purrs and cuddles, but we luv those too.

 

 Lexi looks at mommy while sitting in her lap on 3/3/2016

 

Dear furiends, ya’ may have noticed we’ve been a little quieter the last few days. Well, mommy’s been a little sad and down and reminiscin’ ‘bout times past. Raena and me have been getting’ a lot of extra luvvin’, and we’ve been returnin’ it in spades. Mommy wrote a poem to sissy the other day, and we thought we’d share it with ya’ll today. Fur those of ya’ that joined us in the last year, you may not ‘member sis Lexi, but she will always live on in our hearts. We do hope that you will pardon our reflection on such an amazin’ soul. Sis Lexi will always be the Gold Standard by which all Service Cats will be measured. Her luv and devotion to mommy, knew no bounds. Mommy says that same luv exists in all of us, and she is so blest to be the recipient of that luv time and again.

 

Lexi enjoys a new nip toy on 2-23-2016

 

Goodnight My Sweet

 

Goodnight sweet Lexi

Close your eyes and sleep now

Rest your tired and weary body

I’ll be alright, somehow.

 

I will hold you in my heart,

Where you can never die

I’ll remember you forever

Go ahead and close your eyes.

 

You’ve been with me thru it all, it seems

Ups and downs, and all the in betweens.

We held on to each other

We had so many plans, and dreams

 

I never thought this day would come

When you’d leave me all alone

I know you didn’t want to go

With me, you’d found your home

 

But time slows for no one

And this world doesn’t care

Who might need you

To always be near

 

So close your eyes now sweet Lexi

Rest your tired and weary body

Time will never separate us

Nor will the heavens or the stars

 

You will always be with me

Forever in my heart

In each and every memory

We’ll never be apart

 

And when you awake

On the other side

Wait for me my darling

I won’t be far behind

 

Goodnight sweet Lexi

This world is still unkind

Close your eyes and sleep now

I won’t be far behind.

©Audra High 3/8/2017

 Lexi in a peaceful cloud frame with a dove

 

          (Raena wipes the tears from mommy’s eyes, and cleans the salty water from her paw and looks up at her.)

          We luvs you very much mommy.

 

 Raena Selfie woth paw reaching out

 

     I love you girls very much too. Raena, you and Dezi are the greatest blessings in my life. I will always miss Lexi, and those that went before. But I will cherish every moment I have with ya’ll.

 

While mommy wrote this poem fur sis Lexi, we know a lot of you have lost luvved ones and feel that despair. We dedicate it to all those who have known that luv and lost it. Purrlease know, you can find that luv again just like mommy has with me and Raena. We’re sending out big hugs to you all.

 

Till the next time………………………………………Be Blest!!!

 

Dezi: Vibrant Blue 

Raena: Navy Blue 

Mommy A: Black

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle

Service Cat Monday: Calling For Emergency Help Options Part 1

Meow Welcome to another Service Cat Monday. Ya’ know, me meowed ‘bout a special graphic fur Service Cat Mondays last week, and then mommy went and let down on the job. She didn’t get anythin’ made up. She did purromiss to work on it this week tho’, so we’ll see. As always, ifin ya’ have any questions, purrlease leave ‘em in the comments section, or send us an email. You can also use our “contact us” page in the menu. It’s purrivate, nopawdy sees it but us. And ifin you’ve missed any post in this series, purrlease click on the links at the bottom of this or any Service Cat posty. The followin’ will be written in human English fur reader and translation ease. We also need to say that our training posts are not intended to be a step by step instruction manual, as trainin’ is all about Repetition, Consistency and Rewards. We include tips, tricks and techniques mommy has used/developed through her many years of training animals, cats in purrticular.  MeeeeeeeYow  Now that the business is outta the way, let’s get to it.

 

 Raena learning to dial the phone.

 

Of all the things we do, calling for help is the one more people ask/comment about. As technology evolves and times change, less and less homes have an actual land line. However, we pointed out in our first post about calling for help, that kitties can not use cell phones. So, are there other options for those that don’t want to pay for a monthly land line phone service? And if so, can kitty be trained to use it? Our latest question about calling for help comes from our sweet friends Robin and Cheddar from Cheshire Loves Karma. The jist of their question was: “How can one train kitty to call for help when their handler is unconscious? It’s one thing to tell kitty to call for help, but how will kitty know to call if nobody tells them too?

 

 Raena learning to dial the phone.

 

The short answer is: Once kitty has been trained to perform a specific task in response to a specific situation; they will perform that task when that situation presents itself whether you tell them too or not. We must remember, kitties’ are very smart. They are capable of assessing a situation and acting appropriately, especially when they’ve been individually trained. We want to remind you that kitties and doggies are completely different animals with differing motivations and abilities. Kitties react from a place of love and devotion. For that reason, kitty must bond with the person/handler they are to help. That person must become kitty’s primary caretaker; in so much as they are able. You can check out our Bonding Tips and Techniques in the links below.

 

 Raena learning to dial the phone.

 

Now, let’s talk about some of the other options available besides a land line. Most people have heard of those Emergency Alert monitors. Technology has come a long way since the introduction of the first Emergency Alert System. They typically come with a base unit, and a necklace or bracelet with a button to be pushed if a person needs help. Most of the units today are about the size of an old fashioned answering machine. Because mommy falls and passes out all the time, her case manager is always trying to get mommy to sign up for one of these devices. Mommy ain’t having it. She says the necklace is ugly, and she doesn’t need yet another item taking up precious outlet and cabinet space. MOL  And besides, she has us.

 

 Raena sits with an emergency call unit

 

But let’s say you do want to go this route. You need to know that besides the initial cost of the unit, there is a monthly monitoring fee. The charges vary between companies, but all of these units are monitored 24/7/365. They are typically set up to call your emergency contact before alerting 911 authorities. We used to have a neighbor who had one of these units and she would press that button all the time. You could hear the voice come booming out of the base unit calling to her and asking what she had done, and if she wanted them to call her son. Her son was set up as her emergency contact, so they would call him, before alerting an ambulance, the police or fire services. These units are meant to be heard all over the house, so you need to be aware of how loud they will be. This is important as kitty will need to be trained not to be afraid of the noise/voice.

 

 Raena with a complete emergency call unit, necklace, and bracelet

 

Now, let’s get to the training part. An old answering machine would make a great alternate training device since they would have a large play button, and one could record a voice message that would respond/play after the button is pushed. Of course you can use fingernail polish or a permanent marker to color the “play” button red, but it’s not necessary. There is controversy about whether cats can actually see the color red or not. The one large button is your main focus regardless of color. You will want to simulate the situation as closely as possible during training. Mommy laughs about how much extra time she actually spends on the floor during training.

 

Raena reaching out from the perch to alert mommy
Raena Alerting to Syncope incident

 

We’ll use passing out as our example for this training exercise. You’ll start out on the floor and instruct kitty/doggy to push the emergency call button. Pick a short phrase that’s easy to remember during a crisis and that’s only used for this task. You might say something like, “Call for Help”, “Get Help”, “Push Button”, or just “Help”. Be sure you are close enough to the base unit to take kitty’s paws and push the button without getting up. You can also enlist a second person to assist you with kitty if that’s an option available to you. Altho’ at some point you’ll need to be completely alone with kitty to simulate the actual incident. And remember when setting up the unit, kitty must be able to easily get to the base unit. You can also train kitty to push the button on the necklace in the same manner. But decide which action you want kitty to perform and stick to it. In other words, kitty will either be trained to push the button on the base unit or the necklace, but not both. You don’t want to confuse kitty or set kitty up to fail.

 

Dezi up close and personal
Dezi alerting selfie

While you’re on the floor, tell kitty to push the button and then place kitty’s paw on the button and gently push down. (Remember to use an alternate training device such as an old answering machine with the volume turned all the way up.) The recording should start and say something like, the person’s name, brief silence and then, “Do You Need Help?!” “Are you okay?” “What happened”, and “Do you want me to call someone”. It would also be helpful to record other people for kitty to hear, as monitors can be male or female. Do Not allow kitty to run away when the voice starts talking. And always remember to reward kitty with extra love. Training sessions should be consistent and short. Remember, training is all about repetition and rewards. Training should happen at least once a day for 15 to 20 minutes. If you miss a day, be prepared to start from the beginning. Repeat these steps daily until kitty starts heading for the emergency unit without being told to. We can’t say how long this will take, as all kitties are different, but it will happen so long as you’re consistent.

 

Dezi leaves the top of the Liberty cat tree
Me’s comin’ mommy.

 

Once kitty starts heading for the machine on their own, pretend you’re unconscious. Say nothing and do nothing. Kitty may or may not push the button. If kitty does not push the button, rewind a bit and instruct kitty to perform the desired action.  Keep at it. One day, the light bulb will go off and kitty will follow through without being told to. Always remember to reward kitty when they get any part of the task right. Do Not reward kitty if they don’t respond at all. You will also have to monitor kitty to be sure they’re not pushing the button just because. Initially kitty may think this is a new game.

 

 

Dezi gettin' love pats from mommy
Me will always take care of you mommy.

 

Do Not yell at, hit, or drench kitty with a water bottle for “playing”. Instead, use this as a training opportunity. Start a training session. In a calm voice, tell kitty this isn’t a game and remove them from the unit until you’re ready to train. You should also make the monitoring company aware of the fact that a Service Cat is employed in your house. Once kitty is performing consistently, you may contact the monitoring company and set up a training session where they are involved and you’re using the actual medical alert unit. Remember, the closer you can simulate the situation and training props, the better. Always set kitty up to succeed and reward appropriate responses with lots of praise and love.

 

 

 Raena hugs Dezi while she lays on the brown cat tree

 

Well, this has been a rather long posty, but we do hope it has helped someone. Today we covered the Emergency Alert systems. There are other options available, and we will try to cover those soon. Ifin you have any questions about this or anythin’ else, purrlease ‘member to leave them in the comments, or email us. And check out our other Service Cat posts below.

 

Till the next time………………………………………….Be Blest!!!

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle

 

Service Cats

What to Look For     Training Foundations     Train Kitty to Massage

Smelling Disease     Do You Need One     Who Bears the Cost 

Housing Laws and Exceptions     Accommodations and Common Sense

When the Handler Dies     Proper Training Methods Pt. 1 & Pt. 2

Easiest Task to Train     Getting Kitty Ready for an Outing 

Discipline: Stop Countersurfing Kitty     Internal Disputes

Calling Emergency Help     Just What Is Kitty Capable Of

Shad: Original Service Cat     Harness or Vest Leash or Stroller

Dezi, the Wheelchair & the Chest     Round and Round We Go

Tumble and Fall Response     Raena Calls For Help 

The Rest of the Story     Raena & the Wheelchair Pt. 1 & Pt. 2

When To Train     Explaining Rewards and Kitty’s Feelings

Stop Kitty’s Begging                

Blest Sunday: The Cuteness of Kittens

Well Raena, as always, everypawdy thought you were the cat’s meow in the bobble hat. 

 

 Raena looks up at mommy while wearing the bobble hat

         

          I’s know sissy. I’s just too cute, ain’t I?. This was the favorite foto of that posty.

 

  

Baby Dezi sits in the chair and poses for the camera

 This is me, Dezi, da day me came to live with mommy and sis Lexi.

Really bad 35mm camera shot. Oh how times have changed.

 

You know, there was a time when peeps couldn’t get enuff of me either. There’s just somethin’ ‘bout a kitten that peeps just go gaga over. There’s even a day this month called cuddly kitten day.

 

 Dezi the kitten lays on the top ledge of the 3 tier cat tree

That’s me, sweet Dezi at about 3 months old. Yeah, da

redhead is mommy, and so is da baby in da black & white foto.

 

 

          Really sissy? You know, I’s glad peeps like me and all, but there are so many kitties in the world that don’t have luvvin’ furever homes. I’s might not have enjoyed mine’s “spa day”, but I’s so fankful that mommy cares enuff ‘bout me to make sure that I’s the healthiest I’s can be, and not makin’ more baby kittens to end up homeless or worse.

 

 Raena laying on the nip mat after her spay day

I’s hope I’s never have to do dat again. Dat “spa day” wasn’t any fun.

But mommy says I’s’ll be healthier now.

 

Yep Raena, an unaltered animal is more purrone to serious health issues. And those cute cuddly kittens grow up. Mommy says we’ll always be her cute cuddly babies, but amazinly enuff there are peeps out there that don’t feel that way. We’ll never unnerstand how somepawdy could throw away their beluvved baby, but it happens every day. Now we know we’re purreachin’ to the choir here, but just in case, Purrlease Spay and Neuter your pets, and support in any way you can, TNR efforts.

 

          We are so very blest to have our mommy, and belong to a community of like minded peeps and anipals. We may not agree on everythin’, but we can all agree Spay/Neuter be the way to go.

 

Sure ‘nuff Raena. And while you might be kitten like fur a few more years, you’ve got a birthday comin’ up fast.

 

 RaenaBelle bunny kicks a chicken leg

Ain’t I’s cute? I’s knew I’s hit da jackpot da minute I’s saw mommy.

 

          Does that mean we’ll have a pawrty? Are birthday’s like Christmas? When is mine’s birthday, sissy? Will I’s…. 

 

 RaenaBelle travels to her forever home in mommy's lap

 

Slow down Raena. Yes, we’ll have a pawrty. We’ll celebrate all month long. Birthday’s aren’t really like Christmas, but they do come ‘round every year. And your birthday is April 21st. That’s how we knew fur sure, you were meant to live with mommy and me. Your birthday is one week earlier than sis Lexi’s had been. When mommy found out your birthday, she unnerstood why she had been havin’ trouble findin’ a new helper fur me. Y, you hadn’t even been born yet. God has a plan and a time fur everythin’.

 

          You mean you and mommy were waitin’ fur little ole me?

 

Yes Raena, we were. But don’t let it go to your head. We were blest to have found you. And you…

 

          And I’s blest ya’ll found me. Really, I’s was. I’s got to be the luckiest most blest kitty girl in the universe. I’s got a great mommy, the bestest sisfur ever, and more furiends than I’s can count. And toys, lots and lots of toys. Mostly, I’s blest to be luvved so much.

 

Dezi and mommy hugging

Yep Raena, we’re fur sure blest. We wanted to update everypawdy on the fundraiser fur mommy. Mommy received a check fur $2,000.00 towards her dental this week. Fank you so much awnty Anonymous Angel and Kitties. Every dollar gets us that much closer to our goal and mommy bein’ able to get her teeth purroblems fixed. Ifin you can/want to donate to help mommy, you can do so on the fundraiser here, or by sendin’ directly through Paypal. Our Paypal donation email address is: lexi.dezi@yahoo.com. That’s lexi (dot) dezi (at) yahoo (dot) com. Ifin ya’ can’t send money, we sure would purreciate it ifin you would share the fundraiser and purray fur us. And another meowsy big fank you to awnty Petal.

 

Dezi gets LumaSoothedMe’s a happy kitty even tho you can’t see me’s face. Guess

you’d call this a back of head selfie. MOL

 

We wanted to say that we luv all our furiends. We know money is tight fur everypawdy, so don’t ever think we think any less of those of you who can’t donate. We don’t count our furiends with dollar signs. And we purray fur all of you every day. No matter how gloomy the day, or what you might be goin’ thru, furiends can make the sun shine in your life. We are so blest to have all of you in our lives and can’t even ‘magine our lives without ya’. ‘Member to take a minute today and every day to give fanks fur the blessings in your life. 

 

 Raena gets LumaSoothed close up

Yep, this is mine’s teaser selfie. Can ya’ guess what

mommy’s holdin’? It’s comin’ up soon.

 

          And don’t furget to check out the Sunday Selfies over at the Kitties Blue. We don’t really take selfies here, but mommy does get a lot of close up shots of us. So even ifin you’re not a selfie taker, you can still link up.

 

Till the next time………………………………………..Be Blest!!!

 

Dezi: Vibrant Blue 

Raena: Navy Blue

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle 

Chatting Cats: The Bobble Hat Saga

Hey!!! Is Anypawdy out there?!! It’s me, RaenaBelle!!!

(Raena sees mommy coming and runs)

 

Raena hides behind the Liberty cat tree

She’ll never find me here.

 

 

Help!!! You won’t believe what mommy’s makin’ me do!!!

 

 

Dezi lays on the Liberty Cat Tree and looks into the house

          (Dezi gets up from her nap and saunters into the room with Raena)

          What are you catterwallin’ ‘bout Raena? 

 

 Raena peeks out from behind the Liberty Cat tree

 

(Raena crouches down and looks around the corner and then back at Dezi)

Look out sissy, mommy’ll be comin’ fur you next!!! She’s got the flashy box in one hand and somethin’ strange in the other. She’ll be comin’ fur you too.

 

 

 Dezi stand on the house on the Liberty Cat tree

 

     (Mommy stands in the bedroom where she had followed Raena and calls out to Dezi and Raena. Both girls had ran past her toward the living room.) Girls, come on. This was your idea. Ya’ll wanted to help Parsley and Smoochie and all those kitties who are still waitin’ fur homes. This is important. And it’s for a good cause.

 

 Dezi wipes her eyes atop the Liberty cat tree

 

          (Dezi paws at her eyes still trying to wake up from her nap)

          What’s mommy yappin’ ‘bout, Raena? 

 

Bobble Hat and mandala coloring book from Bionic Basil

You know. That time travelin’ bobble hat that be goin’ ‘round Blogville. Fur every kitty that wears it and meows ‘bout it, Basil’s housemates Parsley and Smoochie will donate 2.00 pounds (sorry, we don’t have a pound symbol here, just a dollar one.) to the Burton Joyce Cat Rescue. It’s a great cause, but you went and volunteered us to wear a hat!!! What were you thinkin’?

 

 

          (Dezi meows sleepily)

          A hat? A bobble hat? We’re s’posed to wear a hat? Nah, me wouldn’t agree to that?. Did me?

 

Hmmmpht  Several times!!! And now, the hat’s here and mommy’s got it!!! Basil’s mommy was so sweet and sent mommy her Mandala colorin’ book and included our very own bobble hat.

 

 

 Mandala's on Mondays with Cat coloring book by Catherine Garnell

 

          Me saw the colorin’ book, that was really cool and mommy can’t wait to start colorin’. But me don’t ‘member anythin’ ‘bout no hat.

 

(Mommy appears at the door with the camera in one hand and the bobble hat in the other and picks up Raena)

Aaaaaack  She’s here!!!

(Raena struggles and reaches out for Dezi)

 

Raena looks up at mommy while wearing the bobble hat

Why are you doin’ this to me mommy?

 

 

Help Sissy, she’s got me!!!

 

 Raena sits on the Liberty Cat Tree while wearing the bobble hat

 

          (Dezi lays down and yawns)

          Better you than me, kid.

          (The house falls quiet and Dezi drifts off for another nap. Before she can even wake up, mommy grabs her up and places the bobble hat on her)

          What? Mooooooooommy, me doesn’t wanna wear a hat.

          (Dezi looks up at mommy)

 

Dezi lays on the vanity while wearing the bobble hat

Fur kittens sakes mommy. At least get a decent foto.

 

 

          Fine. But just this once.

(Raena appears at the door and starts laughing)

Me told you, that you were next.

 

 Dezi lays on the vanity while wearing the time traveling bobble hat

It’ll do. Basil, Parsley, Smoochie, ya’ll owe me big fur this one. MOL

 

          (Photos taken and hat removed, Dezi starts re-fluffing her floofy fur)

          Don’t tell me we have to model the socks mommy won from Three Chatty Cats too?.

 

 Best friends socks and coffee mug

 

Fank the cats, No. But they are really cool, and mommy’s luvvin’ her new coffee mug too. All kiddin’ aside, we didn’t mind wearin’ the bobble hat. It’s fur a great cause, and we’re all ‘bout helpin’ kitties in need. We wish every kitty had a luvvin’ furever home like we do. So any time we have the oppurrtunity to help, we will. You too can help out by joinin’ the Time Travelin’ Bobble Hat Worldwide Tour. And ifin ya’ like those cool adult colorin’ books, check out Basil’s blog on Mondays (Link above). They post a new and unique colorin’ page fur you to purrint and enjoy every week. 

 

Pet Parade Blog Hop Badge

          Hey Raena, don’t furget the Pet Parade blog hop with Rascal and Rocco. Ya’ know, Basil be one of the cohosts so you can link up at either blog. Just ‘member to link up; it’s great fun.

 

 Raena looks away while wearing the bobble hat

Alright mommy, dat’s enuff with da hat. Can we have

some treats now?

 

Well sissy, you already did. We did wanna mention that we think we’re back to bein’ able to leave comments on blogger. We think what happens, is that we get marked as spam on blogger every once in a while, and till that purrson un-spams us, we can’t comment. We’re not accusin’ anypawdy, cuz it’s pawssible that blogger is the one that flags us and not an actual purrson. But it does take an actual purrson to un-spam us. So fank you to whoever it was that retrieved us from your spam folder.

 

 Raena lays on the small perch and looks our the front door.

 

Well, that’s it fur us today. Mommy got to rest the last couple of days and her neck kink is better. So we’ll be ‘round to see ya’ just as soon as we can. We hope you all have a pawsum weekend.

 

Till the next time………………………………………Be Blest!!!

 

Do you (your cat) mind wearing hats?

Do you (your human) enjoy the adult coloring books?

Do you want to participate in the Time Traveling Bobble Hat to help kitties in need? If so, please let Basil know (link above).

 

Raena: Navy Blue

Dezi: Vibrant Blue

Mommy A: Black

 

Luvs and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

RaenaBelle and Deztinee