Welcome, it’s time fur another Service Cat Monday posty. Fank you fur bearin’ with us last week durin’ our time off. Mommy’s not completely thru with lease re-cert stuffs, but she’s gettin’ there. Seems every time we turn ‘round, there’s somethin’ new or old bein’ thrown at us. And, we’ve got an inspection to purrpare fur this week on top of it. Anyways, that’s not what we’re here to meow ‘bout today. As always the followin’ will be writtten in human English fur reader and translator ease. We welcome any and all questions; just leave ‘em in the comments or send us an email. Purrlease be as specific as pawssible ifin you’re dealin’ with a purrticular issue. We want to offur the bestest advice and tips we can to help you and others. Our Trainin’ posts are not meant to be a step by step Trainin’ manual; but rather, Tips, Tricks and Techniques mommy has used/developed throughout her many years of trainin’ animals, cats in purrticular. Remember, Training never stops. it’s all ‘bout Repetition and Rewards. Ifin you’ve missed any of the posts in this series, you can ketch up by clickin’ the links at the end of this or any Service Cat Monday posty.
We’ve been dealing with the issue of “Aggressive” kitties. Unfortunately, Aggression can be the result of so many different issues that we could write about it every day for a year and still not cover it all. However, the base of Aggression is one of three issues: Fear, Illness or what mommy calls Alpha Aggression. Alpha Aggression includes territorial issues and interactions between other dominant cats. In our last Service Cat post, we talked about catering to your Alpha Cat. We got a couple of questions asking what we mean by “catering”. The Alpha cat is always greeted first when coming home or walking into a room where your cats are present. The Alpha Cat should be fed first, get treats first, be brushed first, nails clipped first…You get the idea. Alpha means first/beginning, so the Alpha Cat should get all the firsts. It’s as simple as putting down the Alpha cat’s plate first or saying hello to them first, etc.. It doesn’t mean they get their food and eat and finish before anyone else. And remember, THERE ARE NO BAD CATS!!!
We’ve also covered Scent swapping, Site swapping (when dealing with kitties who are separated from others in a household), Confidence boosting and what drives the behaviors of house cats. Once you’ve ruled out any possible medical reasons for your cats’ behavior, then you need to figure our what’s behind the Aggression in order to treat it. We are all about feeding the strays and feral cats. However, if they are hanging around on your porch, in your backyard, or other areas that could be causing your house kitty to feel insecure or threatened, you need to feed them further away. It can be at the back of your property or a backyard shed. Just keep it off your porch if outside kitties are a problem for your house cat’s well being. As much as we love and pity the kitties who have to live outside, your house cat has to be the priority.
It’s always good to be aware of loud noises that may scare your kitty(s). Obviously you can’t do away with many of those noises, such as the carpet monster(vacuum), lawn equipment, car backfires, and so on; you can eliminate or at least quieten radios, t.v.’s, your voice, etc.. We have a pretty quiet house; and as a result, we get a little scared by loud excited commotion. When somebody comes over, mommy’s always reminding them to act and speak calmly with their inside voice. We may not be able to control the sonic booms, thunder, lawn crew, or the likes, but mommy can control our visitors; and so can you. Even if you think it’s a problem for only 1 cat in your home, it’s really a problem for all if them. Us kitties feed off the energy around us.
Back in the late 70’s early 80’s there was an idea floating around that you could send “psychic” messages to your kitties/animals even when you weren’t at home, to help ease their stress. The idea was to picture your kitty in your mind and say things like, “I love you”, “I’ll be home soon”, “you’re safe”, and so on. While mommy never bought into that idea, she does believe that we kitties/animals can feel your emotions when you’re dealing with us. Whether that emotion is positive or negative, we will react accordingly. When dealing with an “Aggressive” kitty, most of the time, you’re already expecting the worse case scenario when you try to introduce said cat to the other cats in your home. Part of helping your “Aggressive” kitty is getting control over your own pre-conceptions and fears.
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Due to untimely deaths, mommy’s had a lot of experience introducing new kitties into the house. And because of sis Lexi’s early aggression issues, trust me, mommy had some fears. But, for the sake of all kitties involved, she couldn’t let that fear take control. Mommy believes part of her success in having smooth transitions is her positive , “there won’t be a problem” attitude. And of course, she also believes in the power of prayer. She suggests a little of that visualization to help yourself get past any fears you may have and to make sure you’re approaching the kitties with a positive attitude. Mommy says you need to expect the best instead of the worst when introducing an “Aggressive” kitty to the rest of the house. Be prepared to act swiftly, but expect the meeting to go well. We realize that sounds kind of silly, and is easier said than done, but, it really does work. Especially if you have followed the precursors of Scent and Site swapping and boosting the self confidence of all the kitties in your home.
I’s gonna ketch it this time sissy.
The best time to make introductions is after a good play session when all the kitties are tired and a little hungry, especially the more dominant kitties. A good introduction would include some major yummy treats for all kitties. Yes, even those on a diet. It’s necessary for all kitties to be involved in the introductions. If there’s been a problem between 2 specific cats, those introductions should be made separately. If you have a 3rd cat that’s kind of the peace maker, that kitty should be included in that introduction. They may be able to calm the other 2 and serve as a bridge for peace. In the end, a happy cohesive home is the goal. A place where all kitties own their space and co-exist peacefully. We can’t put a time limit on this because every cat is different. You know your cats and they’re yours for life, so take the time to do it right. Your rewards will be endless.
We’re gonna wrap this topic up fur now. We hope we’ve given ya’ some helpful tips to deal with “Aggression” and introductions of kitties. Ifin after readin’ these posts you still need help or would like us to expand on a specific training task, purrlease let us know. As we said earlier, we could cover this topic endlessly and still only scratch the surface. We weren’t given the specifics from any of those who originally asked about Aggression, so we’ve dealt with it in a broad manner trying to help as many as possible. We’ll be addressing a new issue next week, so purrlease come by and check it out. Submit any questions you have in the comments below or send us an email at lexi.dezi@yahoo.com or use the form on our “contact us” page. And don’t furget, you can ketch up on any Service Cat posty you may have missed by clickin’ the links below.
it was a nice idea to send messages to our furfriends via thoughts, but I don’t think that it worked :o) but you are totally right, animals can feel virbrations and they can read us… no one can pretend something to a dog or a cat, they know if your hearts are heavy even when we smile… and they feal our fears and they become fearful that way too or we wake their protection instinct and have to deal with a reactive or overprotective furfriend…
Hisses to all those inspections and other stress makers to your quiet lives.
Petcretary has some experiences with introducing kitties to the one(s) here already,and mostly it went well.The hardest kitty she had to introduce other kitties to was our Angel Suki. But even she decided to be OK with them…and it was gratifying to see them all curled up together sometimes. Which was us and her, MOL!
It doesn’t seem right that you get so many inspections. I can understand once a year to make sure there are no damages, but these are so wrong. I have been addressing Sammy first and it does help, along with his calming collar. He has no interest in Emmy, but is not thrilled with Brody. He does tolerate better though. XO
Yeah awnty Ellen, we get fed up with them too. It is a bit ridiculous as this company’s da only one dat does it. And trust me, mommy’s lived a lot of places. Good luck with Sammy and Brody. We’re purrayin’ and here to help ifin ya’ need it big hugs
dezi N raena…thanx for sharin thiz post; it iz filled with lotz oh grate info; az all wayz….N we troo lee due bee leeve we pick up on R peepulz emotionz……like me…tuna…eye noe when de food gurl iz sorta sad N eye try ta help out best eye bye revvin up me purr motorz N when boomer died; cuzin dai$y made sure ta hang round her food servizz purrson lotz mor…ya noe ~~~~~ ♥♥
Excellent post, well-thought-out and presented. Thanks. XOCK, Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Angel Fiona, Astrid, Lisbeth, Calista Jo and Cooper Murphy
Oh Dezi, This all so true, When the Formerly Feral Kitties came to live with us dad built them their own room but it had french doors that led into mom and dad’s bedroom. we could see each other and smell each other. We were curious and so were they. Then a bad storm came and it scared them, so dad closed off the bedroom from the rest of the house and let them come in. My sister Ms Murphy can open doors by hanging on the handles, so she opened the bedroom and we all got to meet. We were all fine and now we all get along. But it was all of that time we spent sniffing each others scents and seeing one another that mad it work.
Keep thinking that it’s going to work, and not freaking out or being depressed with setbacks!
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it was a nice idea to send messages to our furfriends via thoughts, but I don’t think that it worked :o) but you are totally right, animals can feel virbrations and they can read us… no one can pretend something to a dog or a cat, they know if your hearts are heavy even when we smile… and they feal our fears and they become fearful that way too or we wake their protection instinct and have to deal with a reactive or overprotective furfriend…
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Hisses to all those inspections and other stress makers to your quiet lives.
Petcretary has some experiences with introducing kitties to the one(s) here already,and mostly it went well.The hardest kitty she had to introduce other kitties to was our Angel Suki. But even she decided to be OK with them…and it was gratifying to see them all curled up together sometimes. Which was us and her, MOL!
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It doesn’t seem right that you get so many inspections. I can understand once a year to make sure there are no damages, but these are so wrong. I have been addressing Sammy first and it does help, along with his calming collar. He has no interest in Emmy, but is not thrilled with Brody. He does tolerate better though. XO
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Yeah awnty Ellen, we get fed up with them too. It is a bit ridiculous as this company’s da only one dat does it. And trust me, mommy’s lived a lot of places. Good luck with Sammy and Brody. We’re purrayin’ and here to help ifin ya’ need it big hugs
Luv ya’
Dezi and Raena
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The best time to make introductions….
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Fank you awnty Jeanne. Big hugs
Luv ya’
Dezi and Raena
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Have a great day, girls!
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dezi N raena…thanx for sharin thiz post; it iz filled with lotz oh grate info; az all wayz….N we troo lee due bee leeve we pick up on R peepulz emotionz……like me…tuna…eye noe when de food gurl iz sorta sad N eye try ta help out best eye bye revvin up me purr motorz N when boomer died; cuzin dai$y made sure ta hang round her food servizz purrson lotz mor…ya noe ~~~~~ ♥♥
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Excellent post, well-thought-out and presented. Thanks. XOCK, Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Angel Fiona, Astrid, Lisbeth, Calista Jo and Cooper Murphy
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Good stuff sweeties, y’all are so bery wise! I hope you have a fun, fun week!
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Ah girls this is another very informative post with photos to really bring it home. And we hope that your mommy’s recert thing goes well. 🙂
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Fank you. We wish these kinds of postys weren’t needed. But we’re glad we’re here to help. Big hugs
Luv ya’
Dezi and Raena
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Oh Dezi, This all so true, When the Formerly Feral Kitties came to live with us dad built them their own room but it had french doors that led into mom and dad’s bedroom. we could see each other and smell each other. We were curious and so were they. Then a bad storm came and it scared them, so dad closed off the bedroom from the rest of the house and let them come in. My sister Ms Murphy can open doors by hanging on the handles, so she opened the bedroom and we all got to meet. We were all fine and now we all get along. But it was all of that time we spent sniffing each others scents and seeing one another that mad it work.
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