Service Cats: Is Your Shy Cat Being Beat Up

MeOW everypawdy. Can you believe it? It’s already Service Cat Monday again. And, the second week in October. This year has just flown by. Anyways, we’ve got some good questions fur ya’ today, so let me get the business outta the way and we’ll get right to it. The followin’ post will be written in human English fur reader and translator ease. Our Service Cat Monday posts aren’t intended to be an all inclusive Trainin’ Manual but rather Tips, Tricks and Techniques used/developed by mommy thru her many years of animal trainin’, cats in purrticular. And to offur insight into your questions about Feline Behavior. Ifin you have any questions or topics you would like us to cover, purrlease let us know in the comments section or send us an email. When asking behavioral questions, purrlease be as specific as pawssible. And, ifin you’ve missed any of the posts in this series, you can ketch up by clickin’ the links at the end of this post. Always remember, Training is all ‘bout Repetition and Rewards.

 

Dezi laying in cat tree in new harness

 

So, our question today comes from awnty Ellen of 15 and Meowing. She asks, “Is there anything that will get Sammy to stop trying to beat up Brody?” First let us say, we’re so sorry you’re having this problem, especially since you were great enough to save Brody from a life on the streets. Secondly, YES, there is hope that Sammy and Brody can live together in peace. Ideally, we know you’d love to see them curled up together having a grooming session. While we can’t promise that, we can at least give you and others going through similar things some tips to help create an alliance/peace accord. We must address the fact that awnty Ellen’s house has gone through a lot of changes since Brody joined their family; the latest being the loss of our dearly beloved Phoebe.

 

Dezi with bowed head praying on the pet stepsPurrlease send comfurt to our furiends.

 

 

As most of you know, cats don’t particularly like change. And, as we discussed previously, cats do have a hierarchy/pecking order when living in multi-cat households. Any loss creates a vacuum in that hierarchy and can cause a bit of turmoil until the cats figure out the new dynamics. The same is true when a new cat is added to the house. Brody came into the house at a time shortly after another loss in his new family. If we recall correctly, he was a bit timid and did some hiding out. While that may have helped Brody adjust to his new surroundings and family, it also marked him as prey. Although Sammy was the resident cat, he was also experiencing changes brought about by the loss of other housemates.

 

Angry cat face emoji

There are several reasons that Sammy could be acting out and taking it out on Brody. These causes could be Redirected Aggression, Fear or Posturing/Dominance. Causes of Redirected Aggression could be that another cat is acting out towards Sammy. Brody may act as prey and run from Sammy causing him to go into hunt, catch and kill mode. If this is the reason for Sammy’s actions, Redirecting him to an appropriate outlet for his aggression is key. At the first sign of any Aggression towards Brody/kitty, Sammy’s attention should be diverted. A loud noise such as a hand clap or the shaking of a coin can (aluminum can with a few coins inside) should cause Sammy/the Aggressor to stop and look for the origins of the noise. Immediately after the noise, say “STOP” in a firm but calm voice and throw a favorite toy for Sammy/kitty to chase instead. Remember, squirt guns, water bottles and the like Do Not help!!!  

 

 Cat chasing cat emoji

 

 

Sammy may also be acting out of Fear. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to know and/or fix what might cause a cat to Fear. But Redirecting the abhorrent behavior will still work. In the meantime, it’s important to build Brody’s/kitty’s confidence in order teach him not to run away and act like prey. Interactive play in the presence of Sammy/the Aggressor and the other kitties will help. But, remember, the point is to help Brody/kitty gain confidence, so ignore any other kitty that may try to join in unless their presence emboldens Brody/shy or passive kitty. Whenever possible, have a second person making sure Sammy/the Aggressor doesn’t interfere with the confidence building exercise. This person might offer Sammy/the Aggressor treats, pats, or brushing during the session. But, only give Rewards when Sammy/the Aggressor is exhibiting the proper behavior and ignoring Brody/kitty. Never Reward Inappropriate Behavior. 

 

Dezi and Raena circle each otherA little posturin’ never hurt anykitty, but don’t let it get outta hand.

 

 

Lastly, if Sammy is acting out due to posturing, it’s up to the human to figure out the acceptable pecking order within their home and Reinforce it. Although this may sound a bit silly, it will certainly make for a more peaceful home. Always greet the Alpha Cat first and then the next in line and so on. Food, treats, grooming and all other interactive activities should start with the Alpha cat and go down the line of succession as well. It is extremely helpful to have scheduled feedings as opposed to free feeding. Free feeding can often cause small spats over left over food bowls. So, to wrap this up, we suggest building confidence in the kitty (Brody) who is receiving the aggression, and Redirecting the more Aggressive kitty (Sammy).

 

 Dezi and Raena sleep together on the floor

2 happy kitties coexisting peacefully.

 

 

That’s it fur this posty. We know this scenario is one played out in many homes each day. We do hope we have helped in some way. We should also say that you have one last option, and that would be to start all over and slowly Reintroduce the kitties by separating them and going through the scent and site swapping methods we discussed in our Fighting or Posturing post or Reintegrating the Scared or Bullied Cat (links below), if you have the extra space. But we do think Redirection and Confidence building is enough, as long as you’re consistent. Remember, ifin you’ve missed any of the posts in this series, you can click on the links below. And as always, we love hearing from you. Leave your thoughts, comments, post suggestions and/or questions in the comment section below or send us an email. 

 

Till the next time…………………………………..Be Blest!!!

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle 

 

Service Cats 

 

What to Look For      Training Foundations      Train Kitty To Massage

Smelling Disease      Do You Need One      Who Bears the Cost

Housing Laws & Exceptions      Accommodations & Common Sense

When the Handler Dies      Proper Training Methods Pt. 1 & Pt. 2

Easiest Task to Train      Getting Kitty Ready for an Outing

Discipline: Stop Countersurfing Kitty      Internal Disputes

Calling Emergency Help      Just What Is Kitty Capable of

Shad: Original Service Cat      Harness, Vest, Leash or Stroller

Dezi, the Wheelchair & Chest      Round and Round We Go

Tumble & Fall Response      Raena Calls for Help

The Rest of the Story     Raena & the Wheelchair Pt. 1 Pt. 2 Pt. 3 Pt. 4

When to Train      Explaining Rewards & Kitty’s Feelings

Stop Kitty’s Begging     Calling For Help Options Pt. 1

Medicating Kitty

Training the Pig Headed, Stallion Strong, Submissive Pup & Conniving Cat

Cats Love Training & Social Media Downfalls

Reintegrating the Scared or Bullied Cat      There’s No Bully Cat Breed

Going for a Walk When in a Wheelchair     Calming the Tiger Pt.1 Pt. 2 Pt. 3

Surviving A Remodel      Taming A Feral Cat

Designer Cats & Scent      DNA Doesn’t Change      Fighting or Posturing

Clicker Training & Operant Conditioning      Wheelchair Training

Basic Training Continues      Managing Without A Wheelchair

Are Spray Bottles Effective      Hands Are Not Toys

Does My Cat Need A Friend

Blest Sunday: Swapping Plates & Making Friends

Raena!!! Stop runnin’ into me and get outta me’s brekky plate. Eat your own noms.

 

 Blest Sunday purple kitty clip art graphic

 

 

          I’s sorry sissy, mine’s eyes keep gobbin’ up and I’s can’t see so good. Besides, the noms taste better in you plate. 

 

 Dezi and Raena eat Primal Freeze dried Cat food

 

 

You have the same noms in your plate. Mommy says,… we both get the same thing. (Dezi meows quietly under her breath) And me knows we do, cuz me eats from your plate all the time. (Dezi turns and meows to Raena) Sorry ‘bout your eyes, me heard mommy talkin’ ‘bout a V E T visit fur ya’. 

 

 Raena sitting pretty

I’s was a itty bitty kitty girl back then. The harness

was way too big fur me.

 

 

 

          I’s heard that sissy. You know, the pawrt ‘bout you eatin’ mine’s noms. Ifin it’s okay fur you to eat mine’s noms, then it’s okay fur me to eat yours. Fanky fanks to awnty Vonda, amazon and Chewy, we only had to go 1 day without our yummy noms. As fur the V E T, I’s thinkin’, I’s might not mind. It’s been a long time since I’s last visited a V E T, I’s can barely ‘member it. Besides, mommy got stabbed at her doctors visit the other day and she said it didn’t hurt at all. Maybe, they’ll skip stabbin’ me cuz of mine’s eyes. I’s can hope, right?

 

Dezi lays on counter at vet officeMe wasn’t so little, and me doesn’t ever wanna go back. MOL

 

Yep Raena, we sure are blest. Me will purray they skip the stabbin’ ya’ too. See, me’s a good sissy. Me’s not sure what mommy tried to get us to eat on Fursday, but me sure was glad to see mr. Fedex.

 

          Me too sissy. Seems we have a new driver, and when he brought our box, he wouldn’t let go of it till mommy purroved who she was. He said the GPS wouldn’t bring up our address and that he’d tried to deliver our noms to the baseball pawrk furst.

 

It’s a good thing nopawdy was out there, they might’a stole our noms.

 

 Primal freeze dried cat food

 

 

          That would’a been pawful sissy. Ya’ know that silly address change our town went thru a few years back was s’posed to make it easier to find us. ‘Stead, all it does is confuse everypawdy, even the 911 peeps arent’ sure where they’re goin’ these days.

 

Yeah Raena, not all change is good. Hey, what do you think ‘bout the new furiend mommy said we have? 

 

          What new furiend sissy? I’s didn’t get to meet any new furiends.? 

 

Me neither, silly. But you sniffed mommy’s hands fur the longest time when she came back in from her visit. She said she met the cutest little manx kitty boy named Nubs. She said she saw him sittin’ in the window of one of the ‘pawrtments out here, so she went by to say hi. She said he and his purrson were both really nice.

 

Raena lays in brown cat tree house

 

 

 

          Oh, that furiend. Yep sissy, he smelled like a nice kitty. I’s sure hope the next time mommy goes to visit she’ll take me with her. Maybe he’d like to play. 

 

Maybe Raena. Mommy said she asked ifin mr. Nubs might wanna try the noms we get to try out but won’t eat. It’s always nice when we can pass along a blessin’ to someone else who doesn’t have much. Ms. A and Nubs said they’d luv too. Ms. A said Nubs was an escape artist who luvved to dart out the door when it opened.

 

Raena outside in her walking harness

 

 

          I’s don’t know why any kitty would wanna run outside without their purrson. The outside world is so scary and full of terrible dangers. But, I’s glad we can help Nubs out. We are such blest kitty girls to be able to try so many new things. We’ve got some really great things we’re tryin’ out this month.

 

 Dezi outside in walking harness

 

 

We sure do Raena. Me’s already seen one thing fur sure Nubs is gonna get. Meowin’ of pawsum new things, we need to go play with one of those new toys so mommy can get some fotos fur our review. And did you know the company’s gonna let us host a give away too? Me luvs give aways.

 

 Raena lays on the back of the chair

 

 

          I’s do too, sissy. We haven’t had one fur a while now, so this is gonna be great fun. Let’s link up with the Kitties Blue fur Sunday selfies and go play.

 

 Dezi laying on back of chair

 

 

Sounds good Raena. Furst, we wanna remind everypawdy to take a minute today and every day to give thanks fur the blessings in your life. There’s been so much tragedy the last few months. And, altho’ our hearts break thinkin’ ‘bout all those that have been affected, we are so blest to live in the greatest Country in the world. We’re blest to have so many amazin’ furiends, and a mommy who luvs and adores us. 

 

Till the next time……………………………………….Be Blest!!! 

 

Dezi: Vibrant Blue  

Raena: Navy Blue

 

 

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle

Chatting Cats: Decorations Everywhere

Hey, is anypawdy out there? It’s me, RaenaBelle. You should’a seen all the stuffs I’s did yesfurday. Mommy and me went to her dentist ‘pointment to get her dentures re-lined, and the place had all kinds of decorations out. Y, They even had the cutest black cat sittin’ on a table. 

 

 Dezi looks at Raena from atop the liberty cat tree

 

 

          What do you mean they had a black cat sittin’ on a table Raena? 

 

 Raena jumps down from the brown tree in front of the new old window

That’s the new old window behind me. Mommy had furgot to turn the

lights on, so mine’s foto is really dark.

 

 

It wasn’t real sissy, but it was still cute. ‘Course, we have no fotos, cuz mommy totally furgot the camera. We even met a new dental assistant. And ya’ know what? She used to work at that place that refused to treat mommy ifin I’s was there. She said they talked ‘bout mommy and me furever. But she did tell mommy that we were lucky they wouldn’t treat her, cuz it was a bad place. 

 

          Sometimes God knows things we don’t Raena. Actually, most of the time. Me’s glad things worked out the way they did. What else did ya’ll do? 

 

 Raena naps on the brown cat tree in front of the new old window

 

 

 

 

We went to the Wally World and the Pet store. Mommy said she was lookin’ fur a surpurrise fur your birthday. When is your birthday sissy? Will I’s get a surpurrise too?

 

Dezi lays on chair

          Really Raena? Mommy was lookin’ fur me a surpurrise? Me’s birthday will be here befur ya’ know it. This is October and me’s birthday is November the first. Just a few more days. Did mommy buy me anythin’?

 

Raena looks up at mommy while wearing the bobble hatOnly cuz it’s fur a good cause mommy. But you

know I’s don’t really like to wear hats.

 

 

How should I’s know sissy? Besides, ifin she did and I’s told ya’, it wouldn’t be a surpurrise anymore. You should’a seen all the cute dresses they had. Mommy said it was ridiculous how ‘spensive they were considerin’ how little material they actually had. Mommy almost bought us a hat. But, I’s reminded her how much we hate wearin’ hats. Ya’ know, I’s like a purretty dress as much as the next kitty, but I’s not crazy ‘bout anythin’ that covers mine’s head. It messes up mine’s purretty “fur-do”.

 

 

 Dezi lays on the vanity while wearing the time traveling bobble hat

Like Raena meowed, only cuz it’s fur a good cause.

 

 

 

          Yeah Raena, you do like gettin’ all dressed up don’t ya’? Me’s sure glad you meowed mommy outta the hat tho’. Fank the cats, we don’t celebrate halloween or mommy might be tryin’ to put masks on us too. 

 

Is that what all the decorations are ‘bout sissy? 

 

Dezi in a Santa Suit including the hatMe’s ready fur the Christmas holiday. Furget ’bout this

halloween stuffs and bring on Christmas.

 

 

          Yep Raena, this time of year peeps go a little crazy dressin’ up like someone they’re not. Me thinks it might be a good idea ifin we were to write a posty ‘bout the dangers that us anipals might face durin’ this time. Wha’d’ya’ think?

 

Raena lays on cat treeDid Somepawdy meow Christmas?

 

 

I’s think that’s a great idea sissy. I’s was still really young last year, so I’s don’t ‘member much ‘bout this halloween. I’s gotta go get ready now sissy. Mommy and me have to go to her doctor’s ‘pointment today. What are you gonna do while we’re gone?

 

          Don’t you worry ‘bout me Raena, me’s gonna take a nice relaxin’ nap. Have fun. Me’s gonna start researchin’ fur our danger posty. 

 

Till the next time………………………………………..Be Blest!!! 

 

Raena: Navy Blue 

Dezi: Vibrant Blue

 

 

 

Luvs and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

RaenaBelle and Deztinee

Chatting Cats: She Ain’t No Spring Chick

Hey Raena, what are you doin’ in the stroller? It’s brekky time.

 

Raena lays in the stroller

 

          Well sissy, ‘member that physical therapist that was s’posed to come assess mommy last week fur the wheelchair? Turns out, he never planned to come here at all. He furinally called mommy really late and told her she had to come to him at the hospital. So, we’re headin’ there today. Fanky fankfully, he’s at the rehab hospital here next door to our ‘pawrtment complex. But still, it put the wheelchair on hold fur yet another week. As ifin there isn’t already enuff red tape and hoops to jump thru.

 

 Dezi and Raena meet in the hall way

 

 

Yeah Raena, and me ‘members how upset mommy was after waitin’ all day on him to show up. But, ya’ll aren’t goin’ fur a while yet, so come eat. You know how mommy gets when she has to tell us to eat a hunnerd times each meal.

 

 Raena lays on the back of the chair

 

 

          Yeah, she was cryin’ ‘bout that last night. Ya’ know, mommy feeds us really well. But, ‘pawrently it costs lots of green papers to buy. Mommy had thought ‘bout havin’ our auto ship go ahead and ship early, but she just couldn’t come up with enuff of those green papers. When she furinally got paid she hit the send now button on our noms. Unfurtunately, they’re comin’ from up North and won’t be here fur over a week. When she furinally realized that last night she called up Chewy to find out why they didn’t ship from the warehouse down the street. They didn’t have an answer other than the warehouse must not have had our noms in stock. Thinkin’ ‘bout us runnin’ outta noms, mommy started blubberin’ like a baby right there on the fone with the Chewy man. 

 

Dezi looks down from atop the liberty cat tree

 

 

We’re gonna run outta food Raena? Is that what you’re meowin’? You fur sure better come eat. Ifin you don’t, me just might have to eat yours too. Me can’t be missin’ any meals now. We’ve read ‘bout how our furiends just starve when their pawrents put ‘em on a diet. At least they’re still gettin’ somethin’. We’ll waste away to nuffin’ without noms. 

 

          Don’t worry sissy. Surely mommy will figger somethin’ out?. Maybe she can order some from amazon that’ll get here in a couple of days? 

 

 Dezi lays on chair

 

 

With what Raena? Her good looks? In case you hadn’t noticed, mommy ain’t no spring chick anymore. And me ain’t meowin’ ‘bout the kind with feathers. She’s got a few more wrinkles and rolls than she used to have. And besides, even ifin she still had all the curves in all the right places, ain’t nopawdy in the catputer fur her to flirt with.

 

          That’s not very nice sissy. I’s gonna tell mommy you called her old, fat and wrinkly.

 

Do you think she doesn’t already know that Raena? 

 

          She might, but, she thinks we think she’s purrfect and gawjus. 

 

 Dezi snuggles in mommys lap

 

 

We do tattle tail, but none of us are blind. And me was just meowin’ the facts. Now, why don’t you put some food in your mouth and keep it shut. (Mommy comes into the room with a fresh cup of coffee and Dezi saunters over and rubs against her and jumps in her lap purring loud enough to shake the picture frames on the wall)  Me luvs you mommy. 

 

 

 Raena lays in mommy's lap

 

 

          (Raena jumps on the chair and tries to push Dezi over so she can also sit in mommy A’s lap. Dezi hisses and jumps down. Seeing Raena’s open breakfast plate, she moves in and starts eating. Raena nuzzles mommy and starts to purr loudly)  I’s luvs you mommy. Are we gonna visit patients when we’re at the rehab hospital today? (Raena cleans her paw and notices Dezi eating  all the rabbit from her plate) I’s better go eat befur sissy scarfs down all mine’s noms. Hey sissy, don’t eat all the rabbit. That’s mine’s favorite pawrt. 

 

Hmmmpht  You steal mommy’s lap and me will steal your rabbit… Wanna play befur you and mommy go out?

 

Till the next time……………………………………………Be Blest!!! 

 

Dezi: Vibrant Blue 

Raena: Navy Blue

 

Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Deztinee and RaenaBelle