She Left Us With Love

Well, here we are, another Service Cat Monday. Raena and me meowed ‘bout it and meowed at mommy a bit and we’ve decided to take a break today. With mommy not feelin’ well, our visitin’ has been limited, so we’re a bit behind. And ya’ know what? Tomorrow is the day of Love. Now the world celebrates this day with candies and flowers and it’s all ‘bout the couple kinda luv. We don’t have that here, so we’re gonna be celebratin’ a different luv, a pure luv. As most of ya’ know, we write an article fur the Daily Mews. Don’t furget to sign up and check out some of the other stories while you’re there. This month, we wrote ‘bout that different kind of love and we thought we’d share it with all of you.  

 

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As most of you know, we lost sis Lexi last year. She lost her battle with CKD (Chronic Kidney Disease) and went to heaven. It broke mommy’s heart and sis Lexi took a piece of mommy’s heart with her. It left mommy and me very angry. Not at sissy. We knew how tired she was and how weak she was. We could have never been angry with her, but we hated the disease that ravaged her. We were angry with God for taking her and letting her get sick in the first place. Mommy says all that’s normal; it’s part of grieving. Mommy also says we all experience loss at one time or another; it’s how we pick up the pieces and move on that matter. Let me first tell you all that we’re still picking up the pieces. However, as you know, we did get another kitty to train as mommy’s second Service Cat.

 

Lexi sites atop the brown cat tree

 

Here’s the thing. Nobody asked me what me thought. Me didn’t wanna be the big sisfur. Me didn’t wanna be the head Service Cat in charge, trainer of the new fluff ball, defender of mommy and all. It’s a lot of work. Just how did sissy do it? How did she manage it all without lifting a paw? She was the fiercest tigress on the planet. Everybody towed the line when she was around. We always knew we were safe with sissy on duty. And let me tell ya’, she was the bestest Service Cat ever. And me couldn’t have asked for a better sissy. She whooped little ole tyrannical me into shape in no time. How? Well, let me tell you.

 

#Lexi the #servicecat sits in a box looking at sister #Dezi trying to get in with her

 

Sis Lexi was pure L O V E, Love. Yep, you read that right. Mes sis Lexi loved mommy and me with her whole being. She never asked to be the big sisfur either, but things happened and there she was, having to not only share mommy and her toys with me, but teach me the ropes too. And she did. Sis Lexi could sense that mommy needed her, no matter where she was or what she was doing. It’s because she loved mommy so deeply. Mommy loved her just as much. And says, that a love like that needs no words. Sometimes mommy and sis Lexi would just look at each other and sissy would get up and go to sit in mommy’s lap and purr so loud the house shook. Okay, maybe the house didn’t shake, but it sounded good. Didn’t it? And trust me, sis Lexi could purr. It could very well have shook the house, it for sure shook the bed at night.

 

Lexi lays in wheelchair and looks up
It’z about time da we got new batteriez fur da wheelchair

 

 

The video isn’t very good quality, but we thought you might like to

hear that purr and sis Lexi meow with mommy. You can

see it on YouTube by clicking here.

 

Bet you’re all wondering what the greatest lesson sis Lexi taught me was?. Sissy taught me how to love unconditionally and trust that mommy loved me the same way. Now, mommy and me communicate without saying a word. And that new sisfur me didn’t ask for? Well, me loves her too. Even tho’ she can be a pain in mes behind, me wants to be for her what sis Lexi was for me. Me wants Raena to know the kind of love that consumes you. Me wants her to never be afraid and to know that she’ll never be left behind or thrown away.

 

Lexi lays in mommys lap and gets some loving

 

 

Lexi looks up at mommy while sitting in her lap on 3/3/2016

 

Mommy says Valentine ’s Day according to the world is a lovers’ holiday. And that’s all well and good, but since there are no lovers in our house, mommy says we celebrate the purest and rarest love of all. Unconditional Love. When all those around fail you, It’s your furry purrer that will always be there. No matter what comes our way, or what trials life may throw at us, we will endure and come out on the other side because we have love. We might still be picking up the pieces after losing sis Lexi; but we’re doing it with the love she left behind. Mommy says if more people took a lesson from the kitties book of love, this world would be a better place. We thank you all for sharing these little moments in our lives. And for those of you who think you’re alone…rest assured you’re not. We love you all and feel blest to have you in our lives. Love is the greatest gift you can ever give; and the greatest gift you’ll ever receive. Unconditional love is rare. When you find it, hold on tight. A true gift is given with no expectation of receiving anything in return. We purray you all know unconditional love in your lives.

Lexi:Always and Furever

 

 

Till the next time…………………………………..Be Blest!!!

 

 

Love and Hugs and Kitty Kisses

 

Dezi, Raena and mommy A

43 thoughts on “She Left Us With Love

  1. dezi N raena…..yur momz tribute ta lexi iz awesum; raena; we wish ewe had getted ta noe her; tho may bee ewe all reddy due….afturr all lexi sended ewe ta dezi & mom huh….N for
    what itz werth; de food servizz gurl can still get upset bout most all de animalz her haz known in her life; her cried watchin a moovee that had jacob in it; him waz her bulldawg that lived manee manee manee manee yeerz ago….♥♥♥…but then her rememburrz de crazed stuff him did….N allz well again ~~~~~~~~

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    1. Fank you. Yeah, mommy’s a little on da emotional side,so it doesn’t take much to send her into tears. A foto, a video, a mention, all will set her off. Fankfully, she has those things and da memories. Big hugs to you all.

      Luv ya’

      Dezi and Raena and mommy A

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  2. What a lovely poignant homage to your beautiful Lexi. The video absolutely poured sights and sounds of pure love. There’s a lot of love in your home and your mommy has a heart as big as an ocean. I hope that by tomorrow when love is being celebrated she’s all better. We know you’ll do your best to help her. We love you all. ❤

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    1. Fank you so much. We do luv sis Lexi…still and always. Mommy says she might not know much ’bout da human to human kinda luv, but she’s all dialed in to da unconditional luv of and fur us furries. Luvvin’ hugs fur all of ya’.

      Luv ya’

      Dezi, Raena and mommy A

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  3. Oh Dezi, we know the kind of love you are talking about, we love each other and we love our dad and our mom that way! Love is forever and death doesn’t end it it. Sending love to you, Raena Belle your Momma and Lexi too.
    Pete the Girls and the whole family

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  4. It does get easier…….I think knowing they are no longer hurting and no longer MAKING themselves stay just for us helps us realize it was what HAD to happen. Unconditional love is the best gift of all and our anipals know that better than we do sometimes!

    Hugs, Pam

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    1. Yes, there is some comfurt in da knowin’. But da heart doesn’t rationalize. Sis Lexi will always be luvved and missed, as will Sammy. But we are gratefull she is no longer sick and hurting. Big luvvin’ hugs to you awnty Pam.

      Luv ya’

      Dezi, Raena and mommy A

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  5. It takes a while to pick up the pieces. But the good thing is there’s no time limit and like you said there is always Love. Unconditional Love. I’m glad that you have that love in your lives and thank you for reminding us how precious it is.

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    1. You are so right. We will luv and miss sissy furever. But havin’ dat kind of luv purresent in one’s life, makes it all worth it bearable. Big luvvin’ hugs fur all.

      Luv ya’

      Dezi, Raena and mommy Audra

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  6. thanks for this post… you described exactly what we felt last year too… and we hope we can get over this feelings once… to read your thoughts was a good first step in the right direction.
    bztw: we did our nomination some minutes ago… good luck!!! naaa h wait… BESTEST luck!!!

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    1. Fank you. Loss is so hard, especially when you lose dat unconditional love. It takes time to pick up da pieces, but fankfully we have furiends to help. And we’ll always have da luv and memories of da one we lost. Mommy watched all Lexi’s videos and cried fur hours, but this time, she was smiling. Dat means it’s gettin’ easier. Ya’ll will get there too. We’ll always ‘member them, and they’ll always be with us. Big hugs fur all

      Luv ya’

      Dezi and Raena and mommy A

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