Meowllo everypawdy, me’s back. Mommy and me wanna thank everyone who called, sent cards, commented, sent financial help and fur all da purrayers, luv and support. Stay tuned fur me’s Blest Sunday posty. Mommy wants me thank you all fur luvvin’ sissy and me. We’s been so touched by da outpourin’ of luv and to know sissy was special to others cuz she fur sure is/was to us. Me has so much news, but me will try not to take up too much of yous time today. We are still havin’ catputer purroblems, but fanks to awnty Mary Beth and uncle Garth, we are gettin’ dat worked out, so hopefully we will be back up and runnin’ full speed ahead soon. In da meantime, we don’t have access to da live writer we use to write me’s posty’s so we hope da fonts and sizing are readable fur everypawdy, we have no control without da live writer.
Mommy had planned to post me’s grievin’ purrocess as it was happenin’ but as you know we took a whole week off. Losin’ sis Lexi has been really hard on mommy and me. We really purreciate all your patience with us. Since we didn’t chronicle me’s grievin’ from da start we don’t know ifin it’s sumfin’ you all wuld be innerested in or not. Me’s title has a lot to do with me’s grievin’ cuz me didn’t mew with mommy fur over a week. You can let us know in da comments ifin you wuld like to read a posty ’bout it. Me will tell ya’ dat altho’ we thought day one was hard, it really hit me a few days later and dat’s another reason we took extra time off. And we also wanna let everypawdy know dat sissy’s ashes will be comin’ home where she belongs.

Mommy has been tryin’ to find me a helper, but there just aren’t any kittens hardly to be found. She did find a couple dat she won’t be able to see till next week, so da search is on. She keeps purromissin’ me sum help and me just keeps lookin’ fur sissy. After all she’s been da only helper me’s ever known.
In other news, you all member we put mr. W’s kitty Buddy on a 30 day challenge at da furst of da month, and we’s gunna be updatin’ ya’ on how he’s doin’ soon. And we got sum great treats and noms from Chewy this month to try out dat we’s gonna be tellin’ ’bout next week. So like me said, lots of things are goin’ on here. Oh and we still have dat big ‘partment inspection comin’ up next week too. (hisssssss)

Anyways, me’s rambled on enuff today. We just wanted to let you all know we’s still here and comin’ back. It just took mommy a little longer than she ‘spected to get back. Da grievin’ is in no way over, but we realize life goes on and we need to jump back in so neither of us falls into a deep depression. We’s joinin’ Rascal and Rocco fur da weekly Pet Parade. Go by and check out all da pawsum anipals of da blogosphere. Purrlease give us some time, we will be round to visit you all soon.
Till da next time………………………………….Be Blest!!!
Luv and Hugs and Kitty Kisses
Dezi



We are still sending hugs and purrs to you and your Mom Dezi
Hugs madi and mom
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Thinking of you has been an ongoing thing for us here and we know it’s tough. We love you both and we loved dear Lexi too. Hugs from all of us, you’re most special.
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Fank you all so very much. We luv you bunches and bunches.
Hugs and kitty kisses
Dezi
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Glad you took some time off. Letting yourself grieve is so important. I read somewhere that grief isn’t a thing you go through and then get over. It’s a part of you, with you always It changes over time, growing and waning, but always there as love is always there. Let yourself grieve and I pray that it changes into a place where you can smile at happy memories without the overwhelming sadness sooner than later. Big hugs and many more prayers a’coming.
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dezi….sum timez it helpz ta rite out thoughtz & emotionz & if it will help yur mom; then we say her shuld due sew…..
it will take time ta find a new kitteh, when lexi haz finded him/her…she will make sure yur mom noez a bout it….
N ewe both knead ta take time ta grieve…..therz noe set roolz…we each grieve in R own time & in R own way… and even then….. thoze….. “ways”…. bee come… and R diffrunt…. for each one we grieve for
ewe come back two blogging when ewe both want two
N we promise, sum day ewe both will rememburr sum thin lexi did, and a smile will come two yur face…..and thatz de way she wood want it ♥♥♥♥♥
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Y’all are just da sweetest dear furiends. Fank you so much.
Luv ya’
Dezi
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Glad to have you back, Dezi. We know the grieving will continue for a long time. Kitten season is upon us so hopefully Mom Audra will be able to find you a helper soon.Can you please ask your mom to send us an e-mail with the name and where to find the flavorless phosphorous binder you mentioned on our blog. Mom has you and Mom Audra in her prayers, and we continue to send purrs and the POTP. XOCK, Lily Olivia, Mauricio, Misty May, Giulietta, Fiona, Astrid, Lisbeth and Calista Jo
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Hi Darling. So good to see you. My mommy been busy a lot and got the sciatica again but her almost over that but the busies remain. I can;t wait wait to see who you choose for a new kitten for you to love.
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We are here for you Dezi and mom. Mike H has said it all. He is a wise man and so is his kitty, Pete. If, going through the grieving process in your blog will help either of you….go for it….if not, don’t bother. Mommy and I get very upset when a loved friend passes so it is up to you my friend.
Lovingly,
Shoko
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Fank you so much Shoko. We luv you and your furmily very much. We just wanna help others who may not recognize sum of da forms grief can take in their anipals. But only ifin others are innerested.
Luv ya’
Dezi
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I will be there no matter what you decide to do.
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Dezi if you want to share your thoughts on losing your sisfur and it helps you I say write it out. I know our Momma is still writing out her thoughts on the loss of Angel Abby who to this day Momma cries over. Grief becomes a part of life, it doesn’t change, but we do. Somehow we learn to live beside it even if it causes us to be sad, that’s OK. Momma believes that the amount of Grief one feels is commiserate to the amount of love one holds, so we know your hearts are full of love for Lexi. We purray you find a new kitten to join your home. WE know you will and it will be the right one for you. ((hugs))
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Oh, Dezi and your mommy, I hope so much that all of this grief will wear itself out and your happy memories will take its place. Was Lexi Sissy? I thought maybe there was another friend for you called Sissy. I’ll have to get to know your family better.
Love
Loulou
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Yes LouLou Lexi was sissy. She’s da only sissy me members. Me had lots of littermates but me left them so early me dusn’t really member them. As fur our furmily, at da moment it’s just mommy and me. Fanks fur yous luv and support.
Luv ya’
Dezi
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Oh Dezi, grief isn’t something that goes away, but in timme all of the happy memories that you and Lexi shared will come to mind as easily as the sadness. Love connects us to those who have left us in a bond that can never be broken ad we know that we will be together again in the next life!
God Bless you.
PS we will be praying for you to find the perfect helper!
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Fank you Pete H and all yous furmily. We really luv and purreciate you all. Fanks fur yous continued luv and support and purrayers.
Luv ya’
Dezi
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